Over the last two years a bearded drag queen won and presented the
Eurovision Song Contest. Olympic superstar Bruce Jenner became Caitlyn and
appeared on the cover of Vanity Fair. Transgender Youtube sensation Gigi
Lazzarato presented Miley Cyrus on the VMA stage. & Other Stories launched
an advertising campaign shot by a 100% transgender team and starred only trans
models. The list goes on and on.
When reading all of this, you could say that the past two years
were quite good eventful for the transgender community. It seems that our has become a lot more accepting when it
comes to genderbending, dressing ‘differently’ and being transgender. But has
it really? Does a big ‘transgender’ billboard on Times Square mean that all of
a sudden everyone in New York suddenly becomes acceptant towards trans people?
Are we suddenly all drag queen lovers because we watched Conchita Wurst perform
at the Eurovision Song Contest? We became a little more tolerant yes, but
unfortunately we’re far from a world full of acceptance. Let’s compare it to our
relationship with big hairy spiders. We tolerate their existence, because hey
we can’t kill them all, but we absolutely don’t want them in our house. So yes,
everyone gets a little more tolerant towards being transgender, androgynous or
simply being ’different’, but this doesn’t mean they will accept these people
in their community or their life.
Last week during an afternoon shopping spree in Brussels, a guy
stopped me and told me he really liked my style. He then asked me where I got
the sweater I was wearing that day, so without any shame I told him it was a
Martin Margiela sweater, more precisely from the MM6 collection (which is their
women collection). I swear I could see the guy’s face turn purple at that
moment. Within seconds his friends all started laughing at him for
liking/wanting that woman sweater.
The fact that about 60% of my wardrobe consists of women clothing
has never bothered me, or anyone around me. Most of the time people don’t even
realize I’m wearing a garment originally designed for women until I tell them
myself, and even then it doesn’t bother them. It was the first time someone
made such a scene when he realized I was wearing women’s clothing, and it
really made me think.
Guy’s think it’s sexy when girls wear their shirts or boxers ‘the
morning after’. They would spend almost half of their monthly pay to buy an
Acne sweatshirt that says “Please call me girl”, but try dressing them in a
women’s Martin Margiela shirt and you’ll get war.
When I wear my black Cheap Monday tshirt-dress over a skinny jeans
to a party in Brussels, (drunk) straight guys and girls tend to play with it
and think it’s awesome. Wearing this dress-over-a-jeans outfit as a boy in the
city centre in the middle of the day inspires a whole other reaction. People
stare or sometimes even comment on my ‘outrageous’ outfit.
For a while, I stopped wearing things like this when going
shopping with friends or when getting my groceries because of people and their
opinions. A few days ago, I was wearing my Cheap Monday tshirt-dress
and when on my way to go get some drinks with a friend. A little boy came up to
me in the streets and told me he liked my dress. The little guy looked about
five years old so I didn’t really feel like I could start a whole conversation
with him about boys wearing dresses etc. So I just thanked him and told him I
really liked his shoes (to return the compliment). He then told me that at home
he sometimes wears dresses too, and that he thinks that if the girls in his
class can wear pants, he can wear dresses too.
Could it really be as simple as that? 80 years ago pants were
reserved strictly to those who possess the XY chromosomes - aka men. But along
came Coco Chanel who started wearing pants because she wanted to feel the same
comfort men were able to feel in their breezy pants… So what if we all just
start wearing whatever we feel like wearing? Just like Chanel did. On that
moment of toddler wisdom, I decided to never restrict myself or my outfits to
other people’s opinions again. I decided that if I want to wear a belted shirt-dress
over my jeans, I will.
Long story short, we still have a long way to go before we will accomplish
100% of acceptance. Who knows if we ever will? But if we all just start doing a
little more of what we want to do, wearing what we want to wear and forgetting
about other people’s opinions on our personal matters, I’m pretty sure the road
to success will feel a little less boring and will pass a little faster than it
would if we all just keep coloring between the lines.
To celebrate this way of thinking, we decided to team up with the H&M Belgian team to do a photoshoot
that questions the gender restrictions in fashion, and the ‘clothing’
rules society teaches us as kids. We hope you like it, enjoy!
PHOTOGRAPHY & ART DIRECTION - STUDIO LATCKERS CREATIVE STUDIO
STYLING - IRENE LATOUDIS & MELVIN JONCKERS
MAKE UP - STUDIO LATCKERS CREATIVE STUDIO
SPECIAL THANKS TO H&M FOR COLLABORATING WITH US ON THIS PROJECT